Rule of 5

Marriage Notes for Young Aspirants –

Get convinced that you really want to get married. It’s just not Sexual life but social, legal, familial & moral responsibility as well.
Be CONVINCED.
⁠There is NO perfect spouse, believe me. Get such a person ASAP after having a counselled time period. Little compromise is salt of married life.
BE REALISTIC & GROUNDED.
⁠This music of Marriage belongs to note of Compromise & companionship. Both have to lean a bit to respect each other and let each other lead.
BE ON A NOTE TO LISTEN & KEEP MUM.
It’s an institution that has its own frills & grills. Learn to enjoy even tough times. Never slap or hit. It hurts. Marriage isn’t just an affiliation between the boy & girl but their family as well. Respect & Regard your beloved partner amicably.
BE OPEN TO OFFER SPACE TO ENJOY SPACE.
Be on an acceptance note with whatever is received is mine. Keep saying a positive message to one own self that My spouse is the best of the lot and I won’t be happy without him. I am not against him/her and he/she is exclusively dependent on me.

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