Forgive Easily !

There is an Old saying goes like FORGET & FORGIVE. It simply means the situations and people who don’t continue to be suitable to your own philosophy, Psychology or psyche should be forgotten and forgiven for whatever good or bad they have done to you.

Normally, it happens like we come across with variety of relationships through the day in our home, office or even in the market. And if you continue to have a practice of easy forgiving, you will be exploited and simply taken for granted.

An old story goes like a Cobra snake approached a Saint to get rid of his venomous nature and live life like a saint.

The seer advised the Snake to remain calm and cool all through the day and don’t bite any animal or person and in due course you will be worshipped as a saint.

The snake obeyed the way he was instructed, but as the snake turned out to be saint like, the people around remembered his venomous behaviour and continued to stone pelt and therefore the snake was all injured.

Once the Guru visited the snake & found the snake all injured. When asked the snake said, I got punished for all my deeds and soon I would be dead, but the guru said I asked you,Not to bite, but at least you could have hissed to save your own life.

The moral of the story is very simple one must lead a good life yet relationship require forgetfulness and forgiveness, and this does not stop anybody to have a nuisance value as well. And value is must even for essentially people person as life is tough and is there is an established FACT that in the jungle, the straight trees are the straight line. Trees are cut first while the corrugated trees are left to live.

Life is also like that, forgive easily, forget easily, but forgive when you have hidden nuisance value as well. It’s also mentioned as anecdote that forgive the betrayal, but remember the face of the person betrayed you.

So that take who messages forgive easily, but forget not. Am I right?